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The World War III – Happy V/s Unhappy

bigstock-Comedy-TragedyEveryone experiences an unhappy mood or an unhappy occasion, but there is a big difference between people experiencing a short time of unhappiness and people who live with it throughout.

Yes! You heard it right; there are people like this around you.

And, they are called Chronically Unhappy People.

These people are often afraid to admit it; most of their unhappiness stems from their own beliefs and behaviors which they often blame it on others esp., the very next individual available. Be it their best friend, a road side vendor, a watchman, a beggar, anyone for the matter.  They have negative beliefs and behaviors on each and everything available on earth.

I really, cannot handle these breed of People, for the reason that they always beg others for love, respect and attention. And, these are the things which you should earn by yourself rather than begging.

And notice that these CUP’s avoid solitude to the core. Being alone, means dealing with your own true feelings: fear, anxiety, happiness, anger, joy, resentment, disappointment, anticipation, sadness, excitement, despair, and so on. They can’t survive being alone, not because they feel cynical, but they miss out people, whom they can blame on for their feelings.  GET IT!

They constantly feel that the grass is always greener on the other side. They alone want to experience all the happiness in the World. If someone else is happy, they start cribbing about their life, not because they are not happy; but because the other person is happy. They never ever notice that the grass is greener under their own feet too.

Nobody is happy all of the time. And that’s a well known fact. So, stop cribbing about others being happy. They also do experience unhappy feelings; which they wrap up and toss it out, unlike you.

So just GROW UP and Move On!

Love yourself, and for god’s sake, stop comparing yourself with others.

Others may hold your happiness temporarily, but only you can do it permanently.

Hopefully that gives you something for a better change.

 

Life is Unfair Get Used To It…

Ray of HOPE

You eagerly wait for a new life. You are desperate to remember the person who you love the most. Life & death are two side of the same coin. You never know which on you get to see when!

We all take things for granted; we never want to run out of anything; whether it is phone’s battery, water, electricity or home. But, we easily run out of HOPE. The things which are not under our control, we try to control them to the core. But the most important thing HOPE, which is always under our control; we never even try to think of it.

Why do we lose hope? Do we all really lose it? Or do we just ignore it? Do we really know, what hope is! Do we even want to know? We say we don’t have any hope, then how are we still surviving?

We lose our best friend, teacher, school, our granny, grandpa; we lose everything in our life stage by stage. But we all still lead our life. Isn’t that a sign that we all have hope left in us for something better?! But we still say we don’t have any hope in life.

Don’t you think misery is that greatest sign that we still have hope left. If you are sad about something that means you still believe in something; and you hoped for something better. Isn’t that the major reason for your despair? I always wonder isn’t this hope so much harder then despair? That we just feel hope is no more left in us.  I really feel Hope is a good breakfast but a bad supper.

When a man is in despair, it means that he still believes in something. That in turn means that he still has a hope that things will change and turn out to be what he wants, Doesn’t he?

HOPE

He was the only one left for me;

I thought I lost him forever & ever.

 

There came in a voice;

I am here, I am always in here.

Inside you, for you;

Till your last breath is here.

 

 

I moved on and on and on;

Thinking that, this is all I am left with,

Despair, Despair & Despair.

There came in a voice;

 

You are the only one who believes in me;

Don’t lose me now, later forever & ever.

 

He was the only one left for me;

I thought I lost him forever & ever.

 

By Akshatha

Relationship…

148638_169172219776855_100000522351618_500327_2648453_nThink of your longest relationship: describe how your love has changed over time; did you go from the giddiness of infatuation, to mad passion, to deep respect, esteem, and friendship? Tell us about your love story.

You need Relationship/s attached with you to lead your Life; you don’t need a life just to pilot your relations.

Life will be fruitful provided, you let go your relations freely. If you tighten it up with your Prejudice, Pride, Ego and Self Centered love; the relationship will never stay long. The term “Longest Relationship” depends on how you behave in your relationship.

According to me, our love never changes. It can survive the test of time. It should endure the test of time. Relationship never ends, life does. It just shifts its state from one to another. Very seldom, it continues to be the same.  My story is one among them.

Our love story is carried over from our past life. From the time, I realized about the sentiments of the life, family & society; I had an immense love, affection, and lust; whatever you name it. For almost a decade, I never expressed my feelings to him. One fine day, I got the same kind of response from the love of my life. Once we both realized that we had the same kind of feeling for each other. The decade which we had lived felt like just few hours. Though, our relationship had no romantic dates, outings, movies, expensive gifts, candid photos and all; we both understood each other very well. We dint have an opportunity to use cell phones to ping and call one another, every alternate minute. Yet, we conversed through our silence.

Over a period of time, we both realized that we can never make it together till the end. We both decided to move away from each other. It was the most immensely difficult decision for both of us. We had to make a choice between leading a happy life with each other struggling, juggling, and fighting over with your loved ones and to conceal our feelings deep inside our heart.

Our main motto was not to hurt our family and loved ones. We both make a choice to dump our feelings and corpse it deep in our heart. We let go our relationship for the sake of better relationship with our family and society. Our relationship did never end. If this is considered as a LOVE STORY, Yes ours is an everlasting, never ending & the longest relationship ever.

It’s been more than two decades now, but still we have the same feelings in us. The difference is it’s not expressed or felt like others do. If, we have tightened it with our self centered love, we may not be so contended in our life. We may not be happy, but we are contended. Happiness can never be self centered. It is always in keeping others around you happy.

Happiness is in spreading happiness to others. You can never be happy if you tend to be happy at first and then make others happy.

“Life will be fruitful provided, you let go your relations freely.”

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Kerwin Rae, a Businessman, coach, mentor, author, investor and International speaker from Australia shares a story.

Once a group of 500 people were attending a seminar. Suddenly the speaker stopped and decided to do a group activity. He started giving each person a balloon. Each person was then asked to write their name on it using a marker pen. Then allthe balloons were collected and put in another room.

The people were then let into that room and asked to find the balloon which had their name written on it within 5 minutes. Everyone was frantically searching for their name, colliding with each other, pushing around others and there was utter chaos.

At the end of 5 minutes no one could find their own balloon.
Then, the speaker asked each person to randomly collect a balloon and give it to the person whose name was written on it. Within minutes everyone had their own balloon.

The speaker then began, “This is happening in our lives. Everyone is frantically looking for happiness all around, not knowing where it is.

Our happiness lies in the happiness of other people. Give them their happiness; you will get your own happiness. And this is the purpose of human life…the pursuit of happiness.”

My most horrible Nightmare ever…

I am living with my boyfriend and my cousin sister. The house is located in the most congested place on earth. The minute you open the door and step out, you can’t even hear to your own thoughts in your mind.  The Street is Jam packed.  The front door is painted as “GOOD CRAP” in the weirdest fonts that are accessible.

GOOD CRAP

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One fine day, we three decide to push the boat out for getting liberated by the demon’s effect and its activity from our house. We are leaping with joy and feeling the fresh and relaxed air around.

Days pass by with ease & Joy…

On that particular day, we resolve on to backing up of our camera photos. The camera stops working normally and it will be working the nastiest way ever. During this flash of a second, all our photos from the earlier functions start to reappear; which was seemingly lost or deleted. We take a call to save all the photos and my boyfriend drives to get it reproduced.

I and my cousin agree to freshen up and go for supermarket run. She hurries to her room and me to the kitchen to prepare breakfast. As soon I enter the kitchen, I notice something unusual, a bad odour & I could sense that something is off beam.  I look around for clues and I see a saucepan on the cooktop. The cooktop is on, for god knows how long!? The pan is sizzling red and seemed like scorching with fury.

It looked like it’s going to liquefy at any second. I move closer, and attempt to put it down from the cooktop. Dreadfully, it slips and drops exactly in front of my leg. I headfirst to pick it up and I become conscious that I am in mid-air swaying like a balloon. That very second, I agreed that I am once more a dupe of suspicious demon’s influence.

I don’t give up; I start to hymn Hanuman Chaalis mantra, which seemingly helps you to be brave & to get out of such horribly, frightful things. Regrettably, I can’t even spell one single word. Instead, some bizarre words come out of my mouth. Soon, somehow the Saucepan comes in contact with my hand and my hand is burnt very badly.

Finally, my cousin comes in to the kitchen. With great relief I look out for some kind of help from her. Disappointed, I find that she is not willing to help. She is way too startled & terrified than I am. My love, with an intention to frame our memorable moments from past, lose me to the doorway of the horrifyingly haunting demon’s hand for ever.

I AM DEAD!!! I wake up with a big jolt and I am petrified, palpitating with fear. I look around my dark room and realise it’s the worst nightmare I have had.

to be continued…

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