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The World War III – Happy V/s Unhappy

bigstock-Comedy-TragedyEveryone experiences an unhappy mood or an unhappy occasion, but there is a big difference between people experiencing a short time of unhappiness and people who live with it throughout.

Yes! You heard it right; there are people like this around you.

And, they are called Chronically Unhappy People.

These people are often afraid to admit it; most of their unhappiness stems from their own beliefs and behaviors which they often blame it on others esp., the very next individual available. Be it their best friend, a road side vendor, a watchman, a beggar, anyone for the matter.  They have negative beliefs and behaviors on each and everything available on earth.

I really, cannot handle these breed of People, for the reason that they always beg others for love, respect and attention. And, these are the things which you should earn by yourself rather than begging.

And notice that these CUP’s avoid solitude to the core. Being alone, means dealing with your own true feelings: fear, anxiety, happiness, anger, joy, resentment, disappointment, anticipation, sadness, excitement, despair, and so on. They can’t survive being alone, not because they feel cynical, but they miss out people, whom they can blame on for their feelings.  GET IT!

They constantly feel that the grass is always greener on the other side. They alone want to experience all the happiness in the World. If someone else is happy, they start cribbing about their life, not because they are not happy; but because the other person is happy. They never ever notice that the grass is greener under their own feet too.

Nobody is happy all of the time. And that’s a well known fact. So, stop cribbing about others being happy. They also do experience unhappy feelings; which they wrap up and toss it out, unlike you.

So just GROW UP and Move On!

Love yourself, and for god’s sake, stop comparing yourself with others.

Others may hold your happiness temporarily, but only you can do it permanently.

Hopefully that gives you something for a better change.

 

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Relationship…

148638_169172219776855_100000522351618_500327_2648453_nThink of your longest relationship: describe how your love has changed over time; did you go from the giddiness of infatuation, to mad passion, to deep respect, esteem, and friendship? Tell us about your love story.

You need Relationship/s attached with you to lead your Life; you don’t need a life just to pilot your relations.

Life will be fruitful provided, you let go your relations freely. If you tighten it up with your Prejudice, Pride, Ego and Self Centered love; the relationship will never stay long. The term “Longest Relationship” depends on how you behave in your relationship.

According to me, our love never changes. It can survive the test of time. It should endure the test of time. Relationship never ends, life does. It just shifts its state from one to another. Very seldom, it continues to be the same.  My story is one among them.

Our love story is carried over from our past life. From the time, I realized about the sentiments of the life, family & society; I had an immense love, affection, and lust; whatever you name it. For almost a decade, I never expressed my feelings to him. One fine day, I got the same kind of response from the love of my life. Once we both realized that we had the same kind of feeling for each other. The decade which we had lived felt like just few hours. Though, our relationship had no romantic dates, outings, movies, expensive gifts, candid photos and all; we both understood each other very well. We dint have an opportunity to use cell phones to ping and call one another, every alternate minute. Yet, we conversed through our silence.

Over a period of time, we both realized that we can never make it together till the end. We both decided to move away from each other. It was the most immensely difficult decision for both of us. We had to make a choice between leading a happy life with each other struggling, juggling, and fighting over with your loved ones and to conceal our feelings deep inside our heart.

Our main motto was not to hurt our family and loved ones. We both make a choice to dump our feelings and corpse it deep in our heart. We let go our relationship for the sake of better relationship with our family and society. Our relationship did never end. If this is considered as a LOVE STORY, Yes ours is an everlasting, never ending & the longest relationship ever.

It’s been more than two decades now, but still we have the same feelings in us. The difference is it’s not expressed or felt like others do. If, we have tightened it with our self centered love, we may not be so contended in our life. We may not be happy, but we are contended. Happiness can never be self centered. It is always in keeping others around you happy.

Happiness is in spreading happiness to others. You can never be happy if you tend to be happy at first and then make others happy.

“Life will be fruitful provided, you let go your relations freely.”

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Kerwin Rae, a Businessman, coach, mentor, author, investor and International speaker from Australia shares a story.

Once a group of 500 people were attending a seminar. Suddenly the speaker stopped and decided to do a group activity. He started giving each person a balloon. Each person was then asked to write their name on it using a marker pen. Then allthe balloons were collected and put in another room.

The people were then let into that room and asked to find the balloon which had their name written on it within 5 minutes. Everyone was frantically searching for their name, colliding with each other, pushing around others and there was utter chaos.

At the end of 5 minutes no one could find their own balloon.
Then, the speaker asked each person to randomly collect a balloon and give it to the person whose name was written on it. Within minutes everyone had their own balloon.

The speaker then began, “This is happening in our lives. Everyone is frantically looking for happiness all around, not knowing where it is.

Our happiness lies in the happiness of other people. Give them their happiness; you will get your own happiness. And this is the purpose of human life…the pursuit of happiness.”

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